“Love will find its way through all languages on its own”

Love is one of the most adorable relations that exist on earth. It is one of the utmost needs of human beings; without it, life is not beautiful. Love has its language, and everyone expresses love in different ways. Expressing your love using love languages is a way to let your partners know how much you care for them.

In 1992, Gary Chapman, a well-known marriage counselor, and writer published his book “The five love languages.” His book got an overwhelming response from the readers because he briefly described the secrets to improving relationships using love languages. In his book, he highlighted the misunderstandings that usually bring big disasters between two lovers.

Gary wrote five love languages to let people express their feelings. These languages are:

• Words of affirmation
• Quality time
• Physical touch
• Acts of service
• Receiving gifts

Words of Affirmation:

This love language has a magic spell to let your partner realize your worth. Couples who express their feelings using words of affirmation enjoy good bonding. Some words of affirmation you can say to your partner are:

• “I love your new outfit….”
• “Thank you for being in my life….”
• “I’m so lucky to have you in my life….”
• “Everything looks beautiful when you are around me & much more….”

Quality Time:

“True love is when you are happy spending time together even if one of you is asleep”

When two souls fall in love, they only want to be with one another round the clock.

• They both want to enjoy happy and sad moments together.
• They want special romantic dinners.
• They want to have a long walk together.
• They want to enjoy a movie together.

All these acts are included in quality time spent between them without anybody’s interference. This love language strengthens their bonding and is a great way to share laughter and tears.

Physical Touch:

“The moment when he rolls over, puts his arm around me and pulls me closer in his sleep. This makes life complete”

This saying truly depicts human nature. It is human physiology that physical touch from a person he loves and trusts can effectively relieve stress and reduces sadness. Physical touch is a way to express feelings through physical affection. Physical touch is not only about sexual interaction; it includes:

• When your partner holds your hand, 
• Touches your cheeks  
• Gives you a warm hug 
• Holds you tightly from the shoulders & much more

Research has found that physical touches between couples strengthen their bonding, and these couples live happier together. This language of love plays a vital role in a lasting and strong relationship between two people.

Acts of Service:

                 “Great opportunities are often disguised as small acts of service”

Actions speak louder than words is a famous proverb and no doubt making little kind gestures is an effective way to express your love. You can assist your partner in doing some nice acts, i.e.:

• Helping in the kitchen
• Make a cup of coffee for him/her
• Arrange wardrobe & much more

These little acts do magic when you love anyone from the core of your heart.

Receiving Gifts:

                          “The greatest gifts are not wrapped in paper but in love.”

Exchanging gifts between couples is one genuine gesture to express love for each other. This kind of love language is ideal for expressing affection for someone very special. This lets your partner realize how you put effort into buying, choosing, and then wrapping a gift by pouring your attention and love for them.

It does not matter how expensive or small your gift is. The most important thing is your pure feelings and the essence of your love that you pour into it. Giving gifts to your partners tell them their importance in your life, and they keep your gifts close to their hearts forever. Sometimes these gifts let them recall the couple’s golden moments together and bring a priceless smile.