I like to receive encouraging or affirming notes

I like to be hugged

I like to spend one-to-one time with close friends

I feel loved when someone gives me practical help

I like it when people give me gifts

I like leisurely visits with friends and loved ones

I feel loved when people do things to help me

I feel loved when people give me a reassuring hand shake or hug

I feel loved when someone I love or admire puts their arm around me

I feel loved when I receive a gift from someone I admire or love

I like to go places with friends or loved ones

I like to high-five or slap around with friends who are special to me

Visible symbols of love (such as gifts) are important to me

I feel loved when people affirm me

I like to sit close to people I enjoy being around

I like it when people tell me I’m attractive/handsome

I like to spend time with friends and loved ones

I like to receive little gifts from friends and loved ones

Words of acceptance are important to me

I know someone loves me when he or she helps me

I like being together and doing things with friends & loved ones

I like it when kind words are spoken to me

What someone does affects me far more than what they say

Hugs make me feel connected and valued

I value praise and try to avoid criticism

Several small gifts mean more to me than one large gift

I feel close to someone when we are talking or doing something together

I feel closer to friends & loved ones when we wrestle, hug or shake hands

I like for people to complement my achievements

I know people love me when they do things for me they don’t enjoy doing

I like for people to cross the street to shake hands or hug when they see me

I like when people listen to me & show genuine interest in what I’m saying

I feel loved when friends and loved ones help me with jobs or projects

I really enjoy receiving gifts from friends and loved ones

I like for people to complement my appearance

I feel loved when people take time to understand my feelings

I feel secure when a special person is physically close to me

Acts of service make me feel loved

I appreciate the many things that special people do for me

I like to receive gifts that special people make for me

I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone gives me undivided attention

I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone does some act to serve me

I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with a gift

I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with meaningful words

I know a person is thinking of me when they give me a gift

I feel loved when a person helps me with my chores or tasks

I appreciate it when someone listens patiently and doesn’t interrupt me

I appreciate it when someone remembers special days with a gift

I like knowing loved ones are concern enough to help with my daily tasks

I enjoy extended trips with someone who is special to me

I don’t mind the “kiss-hello‟ with friends I am close to

Receiving a gift given for no special reason excites me

I like to be told that I am appreciated

I like for a person to look at me when they are talking

Gifts from a friend or loved one are always special to me

I feel good when a friend or loved one hugs or touches me

I feel loved when a person enthusiastically does some task I have requested

I feel loved when I am told how much I am appreciated

I need physical contact with people everyday

I need words of encouragement and affirmation everyday